Sex chat for teenagers

17-Jun-2016 12:11 by 10 Comments

Sex chat for teenagers

This ancient dance used to be regulated by society.

Boys in particular are vulnerable, as they are generally more motivated by sex than girls (who tend to be more relationship-focused) and therefore more attracted to sexting.Viewing and sharing sexual content is becoming the norm – as has hiding it from parents.The acronyms NIFOC (naked in front of computer), GNOC (get naked on camera), NP4NP (naked pic for naked pic) and POS (parent over shoulder) need no explanation to anyone in their teens or 20s, but may well be a shock to parents such as Sarah.These days, the internet, the smartphone, messaging and Skype have turned that millennia-old dynamic on its head.Sex was supposed to be the last domino to fall after a long social ritual, not the way to say hello.It slows down the heart, relaxes us and gives us a warm, fuzzy feeling.

Our nervous system is then primed in a healthy way to handle any possible sexual activity to come. Our social-engagement system does not kick in, leaving room for our more primitive ‘mammal brain’ to take charge.

This sends a message to our brain that we are safe in this social space.

Hearing the other person’s voice has a similar calming effect on the brain, when nerves in the inner ear are triggered by particular frequencies (notably the frequency most similar to a mother’s voice, which is usually the first safe relationship we encounter).

He was showing symptoms of addiction to his phone and withdrawal from the world.

He was discovering girls, dating and sex – nothing abnormal about that – but because it was all happening online, it was affecting his nervous system in ways we are only just beginning to understand. For my generation (I am 44), the first hurdle we had to overcome was getting to whatever party it was where there might be some action.

Receiving these positive visual and auditory signals makes us connected, compassionate and cooperative.

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