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Data collected by Virtual Dating Assistants revealed that while women of all ages respond well to humor, women in their early 30s and above responded well to longer, more thoughtful emails that expressed genuine interest.Women in their 20s rejected these more serious emails, preferring even some slight cockiness - or what some dating coaches call the “Cocky & Funny” approach.
Internally, the company tracks 19 variables related to every first message they send out on behalf of their clients.: Choosing the photos to use can be really tough but last year Ok Cupid released a user-driven web app called My Best Face that will help you to quickly narrow in on the keepers and eliminate the duds.The app allows you to upload photos for the other members to vote on.“By not looking,” he said, “you appear stronger and more challenging while simultaneously building aura and mystique.” : Women in their early 20s who use photos that show cleavage get around 24% more responses, according to Ok Cupid. But what’s more interesting is that that number jumps to 79% by age 32.Similarly, men who show their abs also do better, but it would make sense that only men with nice abs are showing them off online.The authors of “Freakonomics” discovered that 56% of men that create an online dating profile do not even get one single message while Jupiter Research found that 97% quit within 3 months.
Scott Valdez, Founder and President of Virtual Dating Assistants (Vi DA Virtual Dating Assistants.com) advises that informed decisions yield better results.
Match.com) was two times as likely to result in a date as a free site (i.e. Scott Valdez suggests, “It makes sense that people who are dropping -60 per month for memberships are more serious about arranging a date offline.” He did recognize that there are some bad paid sites out there too (do your research before you open your wallet), and Ok Cupid is becoming a highly effective free site that can compete with high-quality paid sites like in terms of the overall site and selection quality.
Photos : Ok Cupid discovered that men who look away from the camera and don't smile have a much higher chance of getting a response than those who look directly into the camera.
In fact, one particular email that is long (over 150 words), expresses interest, draws commonalities (it’s always customized), demonstrates humor as well as a sense of ambition and adventure received a 9.7% response rate from women in their 20s, a 20.5% response rate from 30-somethings, and a 50.3% from women 40 and above.
This email, according to Scott, was sent to over a thousand women of different ages, so it’s pretty clear, based on these numbers alone, that a one-size-fits-all approach to online dating is a bad one.
As Scott Valdez puts it, "Online, you're only as good as your worst photo." Messages : According to Scott Valdez at Vi DA, if you email someone who was last active one to three weeks ago then your response rate will be 60% lower than if you message one that’s ‘online now’.