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The title of this post is, however, not just for click bait purposes.
I sometimes wonder how many people are scared off the idea of cross racial dating or relationships by all of this nonsense – all the assumptions, stereotypes and judgments that they would have to deal with from other people. Many friends tell my partner and I that we are so lucky to have each other and to love each other like we do.In their eyes, this is confirmed by the fact that I just so happen to have had two black girlfriends in a row.Never mind that every girlfriend I had before that was white. Anyone who’s ever been to Jo’Burg on Long Street will have seen various German men dotted around the fringes, gingerly creeping closer to the nearest buxom black woman as if they were about to try a piece of sushi for the first time in their lives Sadly, some other black women also seem to swallow this narrative.The sooner that more people come to realize this the better – not only for us, but also for them.I am a Nigerian Living here in Johannesburg for more than 16 months now.Anyone who’s ever been to Jo’Burg on Long Street will have seen various German men dotted around the fringes (why is it always the Germans?
), gingerly creeping closer to the nearest buxom black woman as if they were about to try a piece of sushi for the first time in their lives.Even more strange, my friends kept mistakenly calling my partner by my black ex-girlfriend’s name. They just think I have a thing for “black girls” so therefore they also have a chance to be with me.This is certainly not something that has ever happened when I’ve moved from one white girlfriend to another. Which of course is great for them, because they tell me that “white guys treat women better”.But suddenly, it seemed my partner was just “some other black girl” that I’d got with because . In one fell swoop, they reduce me to just “some white guy” with a thing for black girls, while both they and my partner become just “black girls” ready to play along with my fetish.None of this is helped by the amount of people who seem so happy to flawlessly play out the stereotypes.Over the past 3 years, I’ve seen this fact made manifest countless times. People literally stop in their tracks, their jaw falls open and their brain suddenly seems to malfunction. Some days I can make myself ignore it, but sometimes I’m tired, and I just want to be able to hold hands with my lover without feeling people’s eyes on us from all sides. Other times I think about telling people that if they’re so damn interested by us, We’ll let them take a picture for R20.